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Eh lifes ok I guess. I feel bad because I have totally neglected this place... kinda like everything else at the moment. I'm just having some issues in my life I'm having to deal with and it's pretty draining so I don't have much energy for anything else.

Basically this is all about a certain boy. I love him. There's rumors he cheated on me but I have no idea what to believe anymore.
  • Mood: Lonely
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:iconshiruchan:
I'm sorry to hear that D:
But if I were you I'd talk to him and if he were really sorry for what he did, I could give him another chance (if you like him enough, of course). He should have told you, though...
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~memuffinismissing Apr 6, 2008   Photographer
Yea I think that's what I'm gonna do.. Now I just get to have the joy of being called desperate and dependant. :/ Everyone is judging when they don't even know half of the story and it really is making things complicated. All they see is sweet little innocent girl got her heart broken by a jerk. Which makes me mad because we are best friends now and I hate when people trash my friends.
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:iconshiruchan:
I know, it's pretty annoying when people talk about things they don't know... But don't mind them :P
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~memuffinismissing Apr 6, 2008   Photographer
Ya I agree.. I try not to but it's kinda hard.. :/
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:iconpichu4850:
aww D: hmm, well that doesn't sound good. (About the boy) hope those issues will be resolved soon then :/ hang in there :hug:
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~memuffinismissing Apr 6, 2008   Photographer
Thanks Pichu :]

Ok I got a question for you though. So I had this amazing boyfriend and we had been going out for 3 months then about 2 weeks ago we both decided it would be best to take a break for a lil while because we were both under stress at home and stuff and were kinda taking it out on eachother. We both knew it would not be permanent so we still talk and are basically best friends. But yesterday I found out from one of his friends he madeout with another girl while we had been going out. It was only once and apparenty he felt horrible about it cause right after he was telling his friend how bad he felt. Also some of his other friends keep me updated on stuff he says about me and all of it is so sweet. So now I dunno if I should date him again or not cause what he did. But apparently he still likes me so ya.. what would you do?
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:iconpichu4850:
hmm... well to put this first, I'm not really the dating type it seems (well I'm fine single right now, I've never had a boyfriend, but I've liked boys in the past) but if I were in that situation... hmm, well, I could give him a chance, seeing as he seems like a pretty good person, and he did feel bad... but for what he did, just for the fact that he did a thing like that, he should have known what would've happened between you too. He could have prevented it, and even though he does sound like a great guy/friend to you, I, personally, would keep it at that. If you want to give another chance, then I suggest you would; he still likes you, that is. However, if you really felt devastated that he did a thing like this 'behind your back' then I wouldn't, since who knows that he might do it again.

(sorry if I confused you in this XD; )
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~memuffinismissing Apr 6, 2008   Photographer
Na it makes sense XD Yeah, I was pretty devastated, but everything he has said to me and his friends (the things he said to his friends were honest because he doesn't know they were telling me everything hehe) have really made me want to give him a second chance. Of course now, however, people are freaking out and judging the whole situation before they really know whats going on which makes it really hard for me. What they see is sweet little innocent girl gets her heart broken which I suppose is the partly the story but most definately not the whole thing. So yea I'm thinking he will get one more chance cause he really is a good guy. Now I just have to deal with everyones criticism and judging which sucks. :/
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:iconpichu4850:
aww :/ Well they shouldn't be judging you from just that, then. Well, maybe you should go for it then, if you really like him back :) And... if something bad does result from it, well, then at least you'll have gained a little bit of knowledge/more experience. <:
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~memuffinismissing Apr 6, 2008   Photographer
Yupp that's truer and knowledge is definately a good thing to have. :]
Thanks Pichu :]
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